It’s been a few months. Some of the best days. Some of the hardest days.
We are getting to know each other. We are learning what we want out of life.
Some days it feels like a fairy tale. Some days I sit back and watch this man in the greatest pain of his life with no way to help him heal besides saying, “I’m here”.
There have been bumps in our road, but I’m determined.
On a whim, our relationship has gone public in the community. There’s mixed feelings. Most people support us and feel we are a great match. We care about our community and serve daily. We love God and we want to enjoy our lives together A few have very negative thoughts on us that are simply not true.
It’s only been a few months since the passing of his wife. We honor her. She’s a part of our journey. She isn’t here anymore and we are not in the wrong. Would either of us think this would have happen. No. But it did. And it’s the most beautiful journey of our lives.
The community will get bored and forget we exist. They will go about their business and leave us to live in peace.
Until then, we will continue with our lives. Every day will present new challenges and new adventures and I want nothing more than to spend my life with this man, discovering all we have to offer.
I’ve never felt more like I matter. This man has chosen me to be his person. Me. Me?
I’m honored. I feel like my world is opening up.
Until next time.
No one will understand.
Why can’t I just do something easy or “normal”?
I was contacted by this God send after his wife passed away from a long painful battle with an angry and unbiased cancer.
He was the best husband. He loves his wife with all that he has. She was blessed by him and him, her. I love their love.
He fought so hard for her. He used his place in the community to raise funds to get her the best help available.
He gained 3 years with her. But he feels defeated in the end by her loss of life.
This is the hard part.
I will not tell you their story because it is not mine to tell. I will, however, explain my place in this situation.
He and I had an instant connection!
E had intentions of taking things slow. That’s not us.
We are in a dating relationship. It’s unlike anything else. All the good. All the bad. We are learning each other daily.
The outside world is questioning our sanity. We get it but we trust God.
I serendipitously ran smack dab into a situation I never thought I would be in.
I went on a call a time ago. God spoke to me loudly while I was on scene. I didn’t understand the word spoken, “here”. Here?
Have you lost your mind?
I’ve only heard God loud and clear twice in my life. It startled me. I didn’t beleive it. I’m still overwhelmed with it.
But I listened. I began praying. I prayed for everyone involved.
I also followed His will. I was still and let God. This is a new concept He has been showing me.
Ladies and gentlemen!!!!
We have a healthy little bebe grub worm!!! 7 weeks and 122 beats per minute!! Longest weekend of my entire life all to end with wonderful news!!!!!
I had an incident yesterday. Around 11 o clock I had to go to the bathroom. Blood dumped out. I’ve never had this happen.
I called baby mama. I called doctor. I called my OB.
My baby mama got there in record time. We sat, she cried, I held her. This is all such a whirlwind. We Googled and pondered and Googled some more.
The fertility clinic couldn’t see me until the following morning.
We decided to go to the Emergency Room.
We didn’t have to wait long. My grandfather came and sat with us. He’s a Saint if there ever was one.
We went to a private room. They decided due to symptoms they would put use a catheter and put an IV. We then had an ultrasound.
There was a gestational sack and a yolk but no pole or heartbeat. My hcg levels were high, 13991. The nurse came in and discharged us with more questions than we had answers.
We meet at baby mamas home this morning and ride together. We talk about all the things. Her teaching at the end of the school year problems, my eating habits, etc. We arrive to the fertility clinic and sign in. We are both a nervous wreck.
I get my blood drawn and we go to room #2. Our crnp comes in and vaginally scans me. She sees the sack, the pole, the yolk. She just can’t see a heartbeat.
She wants to believe she saw a flicker but she just can’t say. She wants us to come back Friday but due to it being only 2 days, she opts for Monday…..until we realize Monday is Memorial Day…. Tuesday it is…… That’s basically 202697 forevers.
This is all we know.
If I begin to bleed again, I will go back to the emergency room. If not, we will have definite answers Tuesday.
Always stay prayin’
Hello everybody! It’s me Pattie.Guess what? I’m going to have a baby.
I am over the moon excited for Mommy and Daddy! I started taking pregnancy test after day 2 because clearly I’m crazy. I started to get discouraged and started realizing why everybody told me not to take pregnancy test.
Friday, day 5, I started to notice a faint pink line. Every day after the pink line got darker and darker.I went for a blood test this morning and I got the call this afternoon. The beta is positive ladies and gentlemen it worked!!! Words cannot describe what I feel. Overwhelmed with joy! For those of you that listen to Christian radio, I called the Wally Show and announced it on the show.
I did not use my real name because the mom and the dad have not announced the information yet. It felt good to be able to announce it and I cannot wait until I can be open about this this is such a beautiful experience I have no words to express what I feel.
Real Life Baby mama
It’s been 4 days. 4 long excruciating days. They talk about this. The 2 week wait. Nothing will prepare you for it though.
I’m not a worry wart normally, but so much is riding on this. So much happiness. I have found myself very distracted. I just want it to work.”they” say, don’t test. You’ll make yourself crazy.
So I’ve taken 3. Because I’m out of control. All say negative. It’s honestly too early to tell. I have a blood test Friday morning. I should wait until then. But I don’t.I have continued taking my estrogen and doing my estrogen shots.
I had a security detail at an Aaron Lewis concert last night and had to manage a shot in between. It didn’t end well.I’m not certain what happened but I can tell you it hurts.Anyway. 4 days since implantation and I’m a nervous wreck.
Y’all pray for me and bebe embryo.